is the modern
symbol for woman,
female, girl, daughter.
In the ancient Oracle bone
inscriptions she is a woman
on her knees, arms lowered
crossed in complete
subservience.
Later, she stands up
but her waist and legs are still bent,
an obedient respectful daughter.

To me 女
always looked like
a girl with a hat,
or woman with arms stretched,
baby in belly.
I used to practice writing 女
and other characters
at a wooden table
for my mother’s nickels
as she read wuxia novels.
At night in bed she would
trace strokes with her fingertips
on my back
and I would guess
her words.
A sharp angle first,
followed by a soft curve,
finished with a level
straight line.
That’s how you write woman.
That’s how you write nu.
("Nu" won third place in the 2009 Women Who Write contest.)